On household fit the Boston's numbers are close to ideal: 5/5 for apartments, 5/5 for first-time owners, 5/5 with children, 4/5 with other dogs, 4/5 with strangers, 2/5 barking and 2/5 exercise.
That combination is genuinely rare. It is a dog that needs about half an hour of walking plus indoor play, is quiet enough for a flat, gets on with everybody, is sturdy enough for children to handle, and at 4/5 trainability learns readily. Its keywords — friendly, lively, comical, adaptable — are accurate, and adaptable is the useful one.
The Pit Bull's household profile is warm but narrower. It is excellent with people at 4/5 with children and 3/5 with strangers, and its 2/5 with other dogs is a permanent management task: no dog parks, no on-lead greetings with unknown dogs, careful neutral-ground introductions, and awareness that tolerance can decline at social maturity between eighteen months and three years.
It also carries an administrative layer the Boston never encounters. Bully-type dogs are frequently restricted in tenancy agreements, housing association rules and insurance policies, often on the basis of appearance rather than pedigree. A Boston Terrier is functionally the same ancestry in a smaller package and is essentially never restricted.
Both cost $80 to $150 a month and both are 1/5 for grooming, so the running costs and the daily maintenance are effectively identical. The Boston's veterinary spending is more likely to involve eyes, breathing and knees; the Pit Bull's skin, joints and cruciates.
Where the Pit Bull wins is stamina and durability — it will hike, run, do weight pull or agility, and it is not weather-limited in the way a flat-faced breed is.